Absurdity in obedience

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Recently there has been a lot of commotions in the press regarding this thing called the 'Obedient Wives Club'. The premise for such a thing is that if the wives are obedient to the husbands' demand and meet their sexual needs, they will least likely be going to commit adultery and extra marital affairs. An article in Straits Times dated 19 Jul reported that the club is not taking off in Singapore.

The question raised is whether the premise is true. But I think the founders of the club missed the point. It is as if human transgression is a matter of doing the right thing. The flaw in the premise is that it missed out on the fundamental issue of sin in our lives. We know this from the bible that the fundamental problem in our lives is sin. That was why when asked about divorce, Jesus said that 'Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard...' The problem lies within, not in the things we are doing. It has certainly nothing to do with a wife giving the husband more sex, and certainly nothing to do with the husband getting more sex from the wife.

Therefore, I do find the premise for the Obedient Wife Club absurd and one might as well be amused by what this club seeks to achieve. As commented by Ustaz Abdul Rahman Shaid of the Darul Aman Mosque, the club has never made its plans clear and there is no real benefit for Muslim women (or may I say women as a whole). To quote from him, if women choose not to join, does that mean they are disobedient?

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